Rende sticky e capacizzati i relay YouTube su coda dedicata.

Evita doppi ffmpeg tra host: stop solo sull'owner, ensure con requeue a capacità piena e coda Sidekiq youtube_relay isolata.

Co-authored-by: Cursor <cursoragent@cursor.com>

backend/app/jobs/youtube_relay_stop_job.rb

@@ -1,10 +1,22 @@
+# Ferma il relay solo sull'owner. Se il job gira su un altro host, requeue breve.
 class YoutubeRelayStopJob < ApplicationJob
-  queue_as :default
+  queue_as Streams::YoutubeRelay::QUEUE
 
-  def perform(session_id)
+  discard_on ActiveJob::DeserializationError
+
+  def perform(session_id, attempts = 0)
     session = StreamSession.find_by(id: session_id)
     return unless session
 
-    Streams::YoutubeRelay.stop_on_worker!(session) if Streams::YoutubeRelay.worker?
+    unless Streams::YoutubeRelay.worker?
+      # Solo i worker relay processano questa coda in modo utile.
+      return
+    end
+
+    result = Streams::YoutubeRelay.stop_on_worker!(session)
+    return unless result == :wrong_host
+    return if attempts >= 30
+
+    self.class.set(wait: 2.seconds).perform_later(session_id, attempts + 1)
   end
 end